What's good kinfolk? Wellington’s Short Story Collection is back with some real talk from the streets. Today we are going to break down how to peep game when a female is just as thirsty then the men, and when a dude is liking on a woman on the down low. Pay close attention, you might learn a thing or two!
5 Signs a Woman Is Looking for Attention:
1) Socials Stay Poppin:
If her IG is flooded with thirst traps, sexy selfies with mad filters and her mentioning how "fine" she is every other post - that's a huge red flag. She cravin' for likes and them simps in the comments just gassing her up.
2) Outfit Going Overboard:
When she start dressin' like she ready to take pictures for for the 'Gram every time you see her - crop tops, tight fits, makeup super caked on, you know she's not dressing for herself no more. That's an obvious trying to get people to notice her.
3) Acting All Brand New:
You knew her as the quiet, chill type. But now she walkin' around being all extra and trying to be the center of attention? That's not her real self, that's the "pick me" act she putting on for the 'Gram or me.
4) Subliminal Messages And Quotes:
If her IG stories and Twitter feed or Facebook is just nonstop constantly throwing shade and lies and quotes about "leveling up" and "not needing no man"...sis is screaming for people to ask her what's wrong so she can get that attention she fiending for.
5) Followers Over Friends:
A woman who values being an IG baddie with a big following over having a real friend circle? That's a red flag she cares more about male validation and virtual attention than genuine connections.
Now let's shift to the fellas and how to peep when a man is really into a particular woman:
1) He Protects Her Name:
When his boys start wildin' and disrespecting her, you see him quickly shut that down and put respect on her name. Major sign he's liking on her for real.
2) Inside Jokes On Deck:
If they got a bunch of inside jokes and stories that only they would understand, you already know he's locked in with her in a way he isn't with other women.
3) Prioritizing Face Time:
He makes sure to make time to actually see her in person and kick it, instead of just leaving it in the DMs and texts. Hanging out is a top priority for him.
4) Remembering Lil' Details: He remembers little things about her - like her favorite snack, hobbies, parents' names and so on. It’s definitely a green light that he's paying attention cause he's invested.
5) PDA (Public Displays of Affection):
When he doesn't mind showing small PDA (public display of affection) in front of others like hand-holding, putting his arm around her, etc. - that's a clear sign this isn't just a casual fling to him.
There you have it kinfolk’s! With these signs, you'll be able to easily clock when a female is clout chasing starving for clout, and when a man has it really bad for a particular shawty. Stay woke!