Laws of Attraction 11-20: Real Stories of Transformation You Can Learn From
```Published: February 21, 2026 | Part 2 of the Series | Reading Time: 10 minutes
👋 Welcome back! Last week, we covered the foundational first 10 Laws of Attraction. This week, we're going deeper with Laws 11-20, but I'm doing things differently. Instead of just theory, I'm sharing real stories (including my own mistakes and breakthroughs) and showing you exactly how these laws play out in everyday life.
Law #11: The Law of Perpetual Transmutation of Energy
Energy Never Dies—It Just Changes Form
Here's what this law really means: negative energy can become positive energy, and vice versa. You're not stuck with whatever energy comes your way—you have the power to transform it.
Sarah's Story: My friend Sarah got laid off from her dream job. Devastating, right? She was angry, scared, and bitter for about two weeks. Then something clicked. She took that anxious energy—the inability to sleep, the constant mental churning—and redirected it into building her own consulting business. Within six months, she was making more than her old salary and had the freedom she'd always wanted. Same energy, completely different form.
Try This: Next time you feel angry or anxious, ask yourself: "How can I channel this energy into something productive?" Go for a run, clean your house with intensity, write furiously in your journal, or tackle that project you've been avoiding. Don't suppress the energy—transmute it.
Law #12: The Law of Relativity
Nothing Is Good or Bad Until You Compare It
Everything is neutral until you put it in context. Your "terrible" situation might be someone else's dream scenario. This law isn't about toxic positivity—it's about perspective.
Real Talk: I once complained about my "tiny" apartment to a colleague who'd been homeless three years earlier. That conversation hit me like a brick. My perspective shifted instantly. I wasn't being ungrateful on purpose—I just hadn't considered the relativity of my situation.
The Practice: When facing a challenge, complete this sentence: "At least I don't have to deal with ___________." Then flip it: "Some people would love to have my problem because it means they _________." For example, "I hate my commute" becomes "At least I have a job to commute to" and "Some people would love my 'problem' because it means they're employed."
This isn't about minimizing your feelings—it's about gaining perspective that empowers rather than paralyzes you.
Law #13: The Law of Polarity
Everything Has an Opposite—And You Can Choose Which End to Focus On
Hot and cold aren't different things—they're different degrees of the same thing (temperature). Love and fear, abundance and scarcity, confidence and doubt—they're all on the same spectrum. The law of polarity says you can slide from one pole to the other by shifting your focus.
My Embarrassing Example: I used to be terrified of public speaking. Like, sweaty palms, shaky voice, near-panic terrified. Then someone told me: "Fear and excitement create the exact same physical sensations. Your body doesn't know the difference—only your mind does."
Game changer. Before my next presentation, instead of thinking "I'm so scared," I said "I'm so excited!" Same butterflies, same racing heart—completely different experience. I didn't eliminate the sensation; I moved to the opposite pole of the same spectrum.
Your Turn: Pick one negative thought that's been plaguing you. What's the opposite pole? Then, every time the negative thought appears, consciously redirect to the opposite. "I'm broke" → "I'm building wealth." "I'm alone" → "I'm becoming the person my ideal partner will love." "I'm stuck" → "I'm preparing for my breakthrough."
Law #14: The Law of Rhythm
Life Flows in Cycles—Ride the Waves, Don't Fight Them
Everything has a natural rhythm: seasons, moon phases, the stock market, your energy levels, relationships. When you understand rhythm, you stop freaking out when things go "wrong" because you know they're just in a natural down cycle.
Business Owner Truth: My business has a rhythm. January and February are slow. July and August pick up. November and December are crazy busy. For the first two years, I panicked every January. Now? I expect it. I use slow months for planning, creating, and recharging. I use busy months for delivering and earning. No more panic—just rhythm.
Personal Application: Track your own rhythms. When do you have the most energy? When are you most creative? When do you naturally need rest? Women, pay attention to your menstrual cycle—there are distinct energy phases. Everyone has times of day when they're sharper. Work WITH your rhythms, not against them.
Remember: If you're in a down cycle right now—financially, emotionally, relationally—it's temporary. The rhythm WILL shift. Your job is to prepare for the upswing, not wallow in the downswing.
Law #15: The Law of Gender
Balance Your Inner Masculine and Feminine Energy
(Note: This has nothing to do with your actual gender—everyone has both energies.)
Masculine energy is action, logic, structure, doing, giving, penetrating, initiating. Feminine energy is intuition, flow, creativity, being, receiving, nurturing, allowing.
Most people are wildly imbalanced. Entrepreneurs often lean too masculine—constant hustle, never resting, refusing help. Others lean too feminine—always dreaming, never executing, waiting for things to magically appear.
My Wake-Up Call: I was 100% masculine energy for years. Hustle, grind, force, push. I got results but I was exhausted, relationships suffered, and I felt empty despite "success." When I learned to balance—to receive help, to rest without guilt, to trust intuition, to allow things to come to me—everything got easier AND better.
Assessment Questions:
- Do you struggle to rest? (Too masculine)
- Do you rarely take action on your ideas? (Too feminine)
- Do you refuse help or gifts? (Too masculine)
- Do you avoid making decisions? (Too feminine)
- Are you always planning but never executing? (Too feminine)
- Are you always doing but never enjoying? (Too masculine)
The Fix: If you're too masculine, practice receiving. Say yes when someone offers help. Take a day off without working. Let someone else lead. If you're too feminine, practice initiating. Make one decision quickly today. Take one action without overthinking. Set a structure or schedule.
Law #16: The Law of Divine Oneness
We're All Connected—Your Vibe Affects Everyone
This is the trippy one. Every thought, word, and action sends ripples through the universe. You think you're just one person, but you're a node in an infinite network. What you do matters more than you realize.
Everyday Example: Ever noticed how one person's bad mood can affect an entire office? Or how one genuinely happy person can lift everyone around them? That's divine oneness in action. We're not separate—we're connected energetically.
The Implication: When you heal yourself, you literally heal the collective. When you raise your vibration, you make it easier for others to raise theirs. When you show up with integrity, you give others permission to do the same.
Living It: Before you speak or act, ask: "Is this adding positive or negative energy to the collective?" You don't have to be perfect—just conscious. One conscious person in a room changes the entire dynamic.
Law #17: The Law of Inspired Action
Not All Action Is Created Equal
Busy work versus breakthrough work. Forced action versus inspired action. There's a huge difference, and it shows in your results.
Inspired action feels energizing, flows naturally, and produces disproportionate results. Forced action feels like pushing a boulder uphill, drains you, and produces mediocre results at best.
How I Learned This: I spent six months building an online course I thought people "should" want. Total forced action. I dragged myself through it, launched to crickets, and made about $200. Then I casually created a simple PDF guide about something people kept asking me about. Took me three hours, felt fun and easy, made $5,000 in the first month. That's the difference.
Recognizing Inspired Action:
- It comes to you suddenly, often in the shower or during a walk
- You feel excited, not obligated
- The steps become clear without forcing
- Doors open easily—you get unexpected help, resources appear, timing works out
- Even when it's challenging, it feels RIGHT
What To Do: Pay attention to the nudges. That random idea that pops up. The person who comes to mind. The book that falls off the shelf. These aren't coincidences—they're the universe pointing you toward inspired action. Test it: take one small step in that direction and notice what happens.
Law #18: The Law of Correspondence
As Within, So Without—Your Outer World Mirrors Your Inner World
"As above, so below. As within, so without." Your external circumstances are a reflection of your internal state. Your relationships mirror your relationship with yourself. Your bank account mirrors your relationship with abundance. Your health mirrors your relationship with self-care.
The Uncomfortable Truth: When I kept attracting flaky, unreliable people, I had to face facts: I was flaky and unreliable with myself. I broke promises to myself constantly. I said I'd work out—didn't. I said I'd finish projects—didn't. Why would the universe send me reliable people when I wasn't reliable to myself?
Once I started keeping my word to myself, reliable people suddenly appeared. I didn't "manifest" them through visualization—I became the type of person who attracts reliable people.
Your Mirror Check: Look at what you're unhappy about externally. Then ask: "Where am I doing this to myself internally?" Frustrated that people don't listen to you? Do you listen to yourself (your intuition, your needs)? Angry that no one appreciates you? Do you appreciate yourself? Want more abundance externally? Are you abundant in your thinking, generous with yourself, rich in gratitude?
The Fix: Change within, watch it change without. It's not magic—it's correspondence.
Law #19: The Law of Abundance
There's Enough for Everyone—Including You
The universe is infinitely abundant. Lack is an illusion created by scarcity thinking. There's enough money, love, success, opportunity, and happiness for everyone who aligns with it.
Scarcity Thinking Sounds Like:
- "If they succeed, there' is s less for me"
- "I better grab this now before it's gone"
- "I can't afford that" (said automatically without checking)
- "There aren't enough good jobs/partners/opportunities"
- "I have to compete for scraps"
Abundance Thinking Sounds Like:
- "Their success shows what's possible for me too"
- "If this isn't right, something better is coming"
- "How can I create the resources for this?"
- "Opportunities are everywhere when I'm open to them"
- "There's room for all of us to win"
Personal Shift: I used to see other writers in my niche as competition. Every time they succeeded, I felt threatened. Then I shifted to abundance thinking: their success meant readers were interested in this topic, publishers were investing in it, and there was room for multiple voices. I started celebrating their wins. Within months, collaborations appeared, opportunities multiplied, and ironically, I became more successful than when I was competing.
Practice Abundance Daily: Celebrate others' wins genuinely. Tip generously. Give without expectation. Say "there's plenty" when you're tempted to hoard. Notice abundance everywhere—trees don't worry about producing too many leaves, the ocean doesn't ration waves, the universe doesn't run out of stars.
Law #20: The Law of Allowing/Detachment
Stop Strangling Your Desires to Death
This is the hardest law for most people. You set your intention, take action, and then... you have to let go. Not give up—let go. There's a difference.
Obsessing over HOW and WHEN your desire will manifest creates resistance. Attachment says "It must happen this way, at this time, or I'm not okay." Allowing says "I desire this, I'm moving toward it, and I trust the universe to deliver it (or something better) in the perfect timing."
My Most Painful Lesson: I was obsessed with getting a specific book deal with a specific publisher. I visualized it, affirmed it, networked toward it, and basically strangled the opportunity with desperate energy. I didn't get it. I was devastated. Six months later, a different publisher offered me a better deal with more creative freedom and a bigger advance. But I almost missed it because I was still bitter about the "failed" first opportunity.
The universe was trying to give me something BETTER, but my attachment almost blocked it.
How to Practice Detachment:
- Set your intention clearly: Know what you want and why
- Take aligned action: Do your part with focus and commitment
- Release the outcome: Add "this or something better" to every intention
- Stay open to alternate routes: Your goal might come in unexpected packaging
- Find your okayness now: Don't make your happiness conditional on the outcome
The Test: Can you genuinely say "I'd love this to happen, but I'll be okay if it doesn't"? If not, you're attached, and that attachment is creating resistance. Work on being okay NOW, regardless of outcomes. Paradoxically, that's when things start flowing to you.
Putting It All Together: A Week-by-Week Practice Plan
Don't try to master all 10 laws at once. Here's how to integrate them:
Week 1: Energy Awareness
Focus on Laws 11, 13, and 14 (Transmutation, Polarity, Rhythm). Just notice your energy patterns. Where are you stuck in negative energy that could be transmuted? What negative thoughts need their opposite pole? What rhythms are at play in your life?
Week 2: Balance & Connection
Work with Laws 15, 16, and 18 (Gender, Divine Oneness, Correspondence). Assess your masculine/feminine balance. Notice how you affect others. Look for where your outer world mirrors your inner world.
Week 3: Action & Abundance
Practice Laws 12, 17, and 19 (Relativity, Inspired Action, Abundance). Shift perspectives on challenges. Follow inspired nudges. Challenge scarcity thinking everywhere it appears.
Week 4: Allowing & Integration
Master Law 20 (Allowing) and review all 10 laws. Where are you gripping too tightly? Where do you need to trust more? How have these laws shown up in your life this month?
The Real Secret Nobody Talks About
Here's what I wish someone had told me years ago: these laws aren't about getting stuff. They're about becoming the person who naturally attracts what they desire.
When you transmute negative energy, choose better poles, work with natural rhythms, balance your energies, recognize your connection to all things, take inspired action, align your inner and outer worlds, embrace abundance, and practice detachment—you don't just manifest things. You become a different person. A more integrated, conscious, powerful person. And THAT person naturally experiences a different reality.
It's not manipulation. It's transformation.
📝 Author's Note
Thank you for sticking with me through Part 2!
I know this was longer and more personal than last week's post, but these laws deserve real-world context. Theory is useless without application, and I wanted you to see how these principles actually play out in daily life—messy mistakes included.
Coming Next Week - Part 3: Laws 21-30! We'll explore the Law of Pure Potentiality, the Law of Intention and Desire, the Law of Least Effort, and more. I'll be sharing the practices that literally changed my life and showing you how to create a personalized Law of Attraction practice that actually works for YOUR life.
Your Turn: Which of these 10 laws resonated most with you? Which one are you going to practice this week? Drop a comment below—I read every single one and often reply with additional tips!
P.S. If you haven't read Part 1 (Laws 1-10), go back and check it out. These laws build on each other, and you'll get way more value if you understand the foundation.
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